In today’s Gospel, Our Lord teaches us the Our Father. At the end of this teaching, we are told,
For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. (Mt 6:14–15)
Is this harsh? Even granted that God can only work in us as we allow him, and a hardened heart admit no growth or dilation, is it really that in the exact same measure that we forgive, we are forgiven? That is, is it true that if I act in small way, I only am acted on in a small way? Is the measure of forgiveness our own limitation? Or does God, rather, go over and above and take all our little acts and reap rewards in his greater greatness? One of the newest Doctors of the Church, Saint John of Ávila is of the opinion that, in a dynamic to enlarge our hearts, when we do a little, God is yet more generous in his relations with us:
He will pardon you many crimes for the one offence you forgive your neighbour; He will be long-suffering with you in return for a little patience shown toward others; He will reward you with abundant riches for the small alms you bestow. Strive earnestly, therefore, to keep the law of charity, for in that is your life.
When we forgive our neighbours a little, God does the same to us – and then goes beyond. He wants to open our hearts, action by action, little by little, so that when we see ourselves deeply loved, we turn around and can more deeply love our fellow-creatures also.

